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Quiz Statistics
Relationship Compatibility Results
These statistics show the overall results from people who have taken the Relationship Compatibility Quiz on our website.
| Result Type | Total Users | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Mismatch | 8 | 9.64% |
| Barely Happy | 19 | 22.89% |
| Often Happy | 42 | 50.60% |
| Very Happy | 9 | 10.84% |
| Lasting Happiness | 5 | 6.02% |
Statistics From The Survey
Participant Responses & Insights
Explore how participants responded to the ten questions in our Relationship Compatibility Assessment.
108 participants · 1,080 recorded answers
Overall Survey Responses
| Answer | Total Responses | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Never | 224 | 20.74% |
| Rarely | 385 | 35.65% |
| Often | 149 | 13.80% |
| Always | 322 | 29.81% |
Results By Question
| Survey Question | Never | Rarely | Often | Always | Responses |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| Every day or every time I look forward to meeting my partner | 2523.1% | 3734.3% | 1312.0% | 3330.6% | 108 |
| My partner and I have the same vision of life | 1917.6% | 4037.0% | 1715.7% | 3229.6% | 108 |
| My partner does things that I like | 2321.3% | 4541.7% | 1413.0% | 2624.1% | 108 |
| When we don't agree, we find a consensus that satisfies both | 2422.2% | 3936.1% | 1211.1% | 3330.6% | 108 |
| I talk freely of intimacy with my partner | 2220.4% | 4037.0% | 1715.7% | 2926.9% | 108 |
| We agree on how to educate kids | 2119.4% | 4037.0% | 1715.7% | 3027.8% | 108 |
| I find a balance between my partner and my blood family | 2624.1% | 3936.1% | 1413.0% | 2926.9% | 108 |
| We agree or tolerate the spiritual view of the other | 2321.3% | 4037.0% | 1413.0% | 3128.7% | 108 |
| My partner keeps fit and hygienic | 2321.3% | 3128.7% | 1312.0% | 4138.0% | 108 |
| My partner and I are mutually dependable financially | 1816.7% | 3431.5% | 1816.7% | 3835.2% | 108 |
Percentages for each question are calculated from responses recorded for that question.
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Statistics From The Survey
Couple Happiness & Compatibility Survey — responses are summarized anonymously.
1. HAPPINESS VS LOVE
13 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Love is the foundation of a relationship. | 5 | 38.5% |
| Happiness and well-being should be the objective | 2 | 15.4% |
| Love and happiness support each other; neither has to come first | 3 | 23.1% |
| Not sure | 3 | 23.1% |
2. A COUPLE HAPPINESS HAS A GREAT IMPACT ON THE WELL BEING OF THE CHILDREN
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Strongly agree | 4 | 28.6% |
| Somewhat agree | 1 | 7.1% |
| Neither agree nor disagree | 3 | 21.4% |
| Somewhat disagree | 2 | 14.3% |
| Strongly disagree | 1 | 7.1% |
| Not sure / Not applicable | 3 | 21.4% |
3. WHICH ISSUES MOST OFTEN CHALLENGE A COUPLE’S HAPPINESS?
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Trust or faithfulness | 0 | 0.0% |
| Communication or unresolved conflict | 1 | 7.1% |
| Money or financial stress | 2 | 14.3% |
| Intimacy or sexual compatibility | 1 | 7.1% |
| Parenting or decisions about children | 2 | 14.3% |
| Respect or emotional support | 1 | 7.1% |
| Sharing household and caregiving responsibilities | 2 | 14.3% |
| Differences in values, beliefs, or religion | 2 | 14.3% |
| Work, time, or work–life balance | 0 | 0.0% |
| Boundaries with relatives or friends | 3 | 21.4% |
15. WHAT IS THE IDEAL AGE DIFFERENCE IN A COUPLE?
13 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Less than 5 years difference | 3 | 23.1% |
| 5 to 10 years difference | 2 | 15.4% |
| 11 to 20 years difference | 3 | 23.1% |
| 21 to 30 years difference | 2 | 15.4% |
| Above 30 years difference | 3 | 23.1% |
4. HOW MUCH CAN DIFFERENCES IN RELIGION OR SPIRITUAL BELIEFS AFFECT A COUPLE’S HAPPINESS?
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| A great deal | 3 | 21.4% |
| Quite a lot | 2 | 14.3% |
| Somewhat | 2 | 14.3% |
| A little | 3 | 21.4% |
| Not at all | 1 | 7.1% |
| It depends on the couple and how they handle the differences | 0 | 0.0% |
| Not sure | 3 | 21.4% |
5. WHAT ARE THE TOP THREE SECURITIES FOR A WOMAN ?
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Intelligence and judgment | 1 | 7.1% |
| Financial stability | 1 | 7.1% |
| Personal hygiene and health habits | 2 | 14.3% |
| Physical presence and protection | 1 | 7.1% |
| Sexual compatibility and reproductive goals | 1 | 7.1% |
| Elegance, social presence, and opportunity | 3 | 21.4% |
| Humor and emotional lightness | 1 | 7.1% |
| - Other (please specify) | 4 | 28.6% |
6. WHAT ARE THE TOP THREE MALE HAPPINESS SOURCES?
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| A partner’s sexual and relational history and past | 4 | 28.6% |
| Sexual skills and intimacy ability | 0 | 0.0% |
| Partner’s ability to give birth and nurture a family | 2 | 14.3% |
| Partner’s ability to care for a home | 2 | 14.3% |
| Partner’s faithfulness and trust | 1 | 7.1% |
| Respect received | 0 | 0.0% |
| Partner’s ability to support and belief in his potential | 2 | 14.3% |
| - Other (please specify) | 3 | 21.4% |
7. WHICH SITUATIONS DO YOU THINK A COUPLE COULD WORK THROUGH, IF BOTH PARTNERS WERE WILLING?
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Miscommunication or misunderstandings | 2 | 14.3% |
| Financial stress or a money mistake disclosed honestly | 1 | 7.1% |
| Temporary distance or reduced intimacy | 2 | 14.3% |
| Disagreements about relatives or family boundaries | 0 | 0.0% |
| Differences in religion, values, or lifestyle | 2 | 14.3% |
| A breach of trust followed by honesty, accountability, and sustained change | 2 | 14.3% |
| A serious conflict with a sincere effort to repair the harm | 2 | 14.3% |
| None of these | 3 | 21.4% |
8. WHICH SITUATIONS WOULD BE HARDEST FOR YOU TO FORGIVE OR MOVE PAST?
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Infidelity or repeated breaches of trust | 0 | 0.0% |
| Lying or hiding important information | 1 | 7.1% |
| Financial deception or misuse of shared money | 1 | 7.1% |
| Disrespect, humiliation, or persistent lack of care | 4 | 28.6% |
| A serious disagreement about children or parenting | 2 | 14.3% |
| Conflict involving a partner’s relatives or friends | 0 | 0.0% |
| Emotional or physical abuse, threats, or controlling behavior | 2 | 14.3% |
| Other (please specify) | 1 | 7.1% |
| Prefer not to answer | 3 | 21.4% |
9. HOW CONFIDENT ARE YOU THAT MOST COUPLE CONFLICTS CAN BE IMPROVED THROUGH MUTUAL EFFORT?
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Very confident | 4 | 28.6% |
| Somewhat confident | 1 | 7.1% |
| Neither confident nor doubtful | 1 | 7.1% |
| Not very confident | 1 | 7.1% |
| Not confident at all | 3 | 21.4% |
| It depends on the conflict | 4 | 28.6% |
10. IN A RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN CONSENTING ADULTS, WHAT DO YOU THINK MATTERS MOST WHEN PARTNERS HAVE AN AGE DIFFERENCE?
13 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| The age difference itself is the most important factor. | 4 | 30.8% |
| Similar life stages and expectations matter more than the number of years. | 2 | 15.4% |
| Shared values, respect, and compatible goals matter more than age. | 2 | 15.4% |
| There is no single answer; it depends on the people and circumstances. | 2 | 15.4% |
| Not sure | 3 | 23.1% |
11. WHICH AREAS OF COMPATIBILITY MATTER MOST FOR A LASTING RELATIONSHIP?
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Core values | 2 | 14.3% |
| Religious or spiritual beliefs | 1 | 7.1% |
| Vision for life and long-term goals | 1 | 7.1% |
| Personality and emotional needs | 2 | 14.3% |
| Communication and conflict-resolution styles | 0 | 0.0% |
| Humor and emotional connection | 1 | 7.1% |
| Lifestyle and daily routines | 1 | 7.1% |
| Family plans and parenting views | 1 | 7.1% |
| Financial habits and priorities | 2 | 14.3% |
| Ambition and approach to work | 0 | 0.0% |
| Need for independence and personal space | 0 | 0.0% |
| Social life and sociability | 0 | 0.0% |
| Culture and traditions | 0 | 0.0% |
| Leisure activities or interests | 1 | 7.1% |
| Physical attraction and intimacy | 1 | 7.1% |
| Other (please specify) | 1 | 7.1% |
12. WHICH DESCRIPTION COMES CLOSEST TO YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP?
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| We feel close and connected while maintaining our individual interests. | 3 | 21.4% |
| We feel close, but we would benefit from more personal space or independence. | 1 | 7.1% |
| We care about each other, but often feel emotionally distant. | 2 | 14.3% |
| We share a home or routine but often feel more like roommates than partners. | 5 | 35.7% |
| I am not currently in a relationship. | 2 | 14.3% |
| Prefer not to answer | 1 | 7.1% |
13. WHAT COULD MOST IMPROVE HAPPINESS IN A COUPLE?
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| More open and respectful communication | 2 | 14.3% |
| More affection, intimacy, or quality time | 1 | 7.1% |
| Greater trust and reliability | 2 | 14.3% |
| Better understanding and empathy | 0 | 0.0% |
| More emotional support and care | 1 | 7.1% |
| Less financial stress and better money planning | 2 | 14.3% |
| Fairer sharing of household or caregiving responsibilities | 1 | 7.1% |
| Shared goals and enjoyable activities | 0 | 0.0% |
| Support for each partner’s personal growth | 1 | 7.1% |
| Other (please specify) | 4 | 28.6% |
14. WHAT CAN MOST DAMAGE HAPPINESS IN A COUPLE?
14 answered this question · % of respondents who answered
Doughnut: share of all selections (totals 100%).
Bar chart: share of respondents selecting each option
| Answer option | Count | Percentage |
|---|---|---|
| Dishonesty or repeated breaches of trust | 3 | 21.4% |
| Disrespect, contempt, or humiliation | 0 | 0.0% |
| Poor communication and unresolved conflict | 5 | 35.7% |
| Abuse, threats, or controlling behavior | 2 | 14.3% |
| Financial secrecy or ongoing money conflict | 0 | 0.0% |
| Lack of affection or emotional support | 1 | 7.1% |
| Unequal household or caregiving responsibilities | 1 | 7.1% |
| Conflicting goals about children or the future | 1 | 7.1% |
| Persistent interference from relatives or friends | 0 | 0.0% |
| Other (please specify) | 1 | 7.1% |
Doughnut percentages represent each answer’s share of all selections and add up to 100%. Bar-chart and table percentages represent the share of respondents who selected an option; on multi-select questions these can add up to more than 100%. Open-ended answers remain in QSM Admin → Results, not on the public page.
Written Survey Responses
IN YOUR VIEW, WHAT IS ONE PRACTICAL CHANGE THAT COULD BRING MORE HAPPINESS TO A COUPLE?
5 written response(s) received. Individual answers are private and available in QSM → Results to authorized administrators.
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