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SAMUEL & WASSIMA

Couple Happiness &
Compatibility Survey

Share your views on happiness, trust, and
compatibility in relationships. Your
perspective matters.

◴ 5–7 Minutes

☰ 16 Questions

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Your perspective matters

There are no right or wrong answers.
You may skip any question you prefer
not to answer. Please do not include
names or identifying information.

1. HAPPINESS VS LOVE

Which statement comes closest to your view?

Love is the foundation of a relationship.

Happiness and well-being should be the objective

Love and happiness support each other; neither has to come first

Not sure

2. A COUPLE HAPPINESS HAS A GREAT IMPACT ON THE WELL BEING OF THE CHILDREN

How much do you agree or disagree?

Strongly agree

Somewhat agree

Neither agree nor disagree

Somewhat disagree

Strongly disagree

Not sure / Not applicable

3. WHICH ISSUES MOST OFTEN CHALLENGE A COUPLE’S HAPPINESS?

Trust or faithfulness

Communication or unresolved conflict

Money or financial stress

Intimacy or sexual compatibility

Parenting or decisions about children

Respect or emotional support

Sharing household and caregiving responsibilities

Differences in values, beliefs, or religion

Work, time, or work–life balance

Boundaries with relatives or friends

4. HOW MUCH CAN DIFFERENCES IN RELIGION OR SPIRITUAL BELIEFS AFFECT A COUPLE’S HAPPINESS?

A great deal

Quite a lot

Somewhat

A little

Not at all

It depends on the couple and how they handle the differences

Not sure

5. WHAT ARE THE TOP THREE SECURITIES FOR A WOMAN ?

Intelligence and judgment

Financial stability

Personal hygiene and health habits

Physical presence and protection

Sexual compatibility and reproductive goals

Elegance, social presence, and opportunity

Humor and emotional lightness

- Other (please specify)

6. WHAT ARE THE TOP THREE MALE HAPPINESS SOURCES?

A partner’s sexual and relational history and past

Sexual skills and intimacy ability

Partner’s ability to give birth and nurture a family

Partner’s ability to care for a home

Partner’s faithfulness and trust

Respect received

Partner’s ability to support and belief in his potential

- Other (please specify)

7. WHICH SITUATIONS DO YOU THINK A COUPLE COULD WORK THROUGH, IF BOTH PARTNERS WERE WILLING?

Miscommunication or misunderstandings

Financial stress or a money mistake disclosed honestly

Temporary distance or reduced intimacy

Disagreements about relatives or family boundaries

Differences in religion, values, or lifestyle

A breach of trust followed by honesty, accountability, and sustained change

A serious conflict with a sincere effort to repair the harm

None of these

8. WHICH SITUATIONS WOULD BE HARDEST FOR YOU TO FORGIVE OR MOVE PAST?

Infidelity or repeated breaches of trust

Lying or hiding important information

Financial deception or misuse of shared money

Disrespect, humiliation, or persistent lack of care

A serious disagreement about children or parenting

Conflict involving a partner’s relatives or friends

Emotional or physical abuse, threats, or controlling behavior

Other (please specify)

Prefer not to answer

9. HOW CONFIDENT ARE YOU THAT MOST COUPLE CONFLICTS CAN BE IMPROVED THROUGH MUTUAL EFFORT?

Very confident

Somewhat confident

Neither confident nor doubtful

Not very confident

Not confident at all

It depends on the conflict

10. IN A RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN CONSENTING ADULTS, WHAT DO YOU THINK MATTERS MOST WHEN PARTNERS HAVE AN AGE DIFFERENCE?

The age difference itself is the most important factor.

Similar life stages and expectations matter more than the number of years.

Shared values, respect, and compatible goals matter more than age.

There is no single answer; it depends on the people and circumstances.

Not sure

11. WHICH AREAS OF COMPATIBILITY MATTER MOST FOR A LASTING RELATIONSHIP?

Core values

Religious or spiritual beliefs

Vision for life and long-term goals

Personality and emotional needs

Communication and conflict-resolution styles

Humor and emotional connection

Lifestyle and daily routines

Family plans and parenting views

Financial habits and priorities

Ambition and approach to work

Need for independence and personal space

Social life and sociability

Culture and traditions

Leisure activities or interests

Physical attraction and intimacy

Other (please specify)

12. WHICH DESCRIPTION COMES CLOSEST TO YOUR CURRENT RELATIONSHIP?

We feel close and connected while maintaining our individual interests.

We feel close, but we would benefit from more personal space or independence.

We care about each other, but often feel emotionally distant.

We share a home or routine but often feel more like roommates than partners.

I am not currently in a relationship.

Prefer not to answer

13. WHAT COULD MOST IMPROVE HAPPINESS IN A COUPLE?

More open and respectful communication

More affection, intimacy, or quality time

Greater trust and reliability

Better understanding and empathy

More emotional support and care

Less financial stress and better money planning

Fairer sharing of household or caregiving responsibilities

Shared goals and enjoyable activities

Support for each partner’s personal growth

Other (please specify)

14. WHAT CAN MOST DAMAGE HAPPINESS IN A COUPLE?

Dishonesty or repeated breaches of trust

Disrespect, contempt, or humiliation

Poor communication and unresolved conflict

Abuse, threats, or controlling behavior

Financial secrecy or ongoing money conflict

Lack of affection or emotional support

Unequal household or caregiving responsibilities

Conflicting goals about children or the future

Persistent interference from relatives or friends

Other (please specify)

15. WHAT IS THE IDEAL AGE DIFFERENCE IN A COUPLE?

Less than 5 years difference

5 to 10 years difference

11 to 20 years difference

21 to 30 years difference

Above 30 years difference

IN YOUR VIEW, WHAT IS ONE PRACTICAL CHANGE THAT COULD BRING MORE HAPPINESS TO A COUPLE?

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